Below is a meaningful comment I received
from someone by the name of Array;
my reply is beneath her observation
containing an important message
which I am eager to convey!
Array’s comment is a thoughtful defense
in regard to Narcissistic, Sociopathic and Psychopathic Personalities
“What if Narcissism is a birth defect? What if it is hereditary? The actions of someone with narcissism, psychopathic, or sociopathic personalities are extremely life changing and permanant, but that does not mean they had a choice to be one or not. I believe they do not, and they IF they wanted to change it, they have so little to work with.” From: Array
Since it is important to get opinions on both sides of the coin, I value her viewpoint.
My reply to Narcissists’ Advocate
“Thank you for your thoughtful comment. I forgive anyone who has ever harmed me and even injured my loved ones. Such forgiveness is a miracle from God!
Still, I write about Narcissists, Sociopaths and Psychopaths to help validate the isolation visited upon the victims of such abuse.
My writings and quotes are not for the benefit of Abusers, but for the sake of the victims/survivors.
I cannot see inside the workings of the predators’ minds or methods, but I know they choose the most trusting, innocent, vulnerable, and even damaged people to target. This includes children and animals.
Those who rape, sodomize, torture (both mental and physical trauma) babies, and men and women are accountable to God, just as we all are answerable to The Lord since we are all sinners. Already forgiven are those who accept Jesus Christ and live by faith.
Much of the time, the casualties of Sociopathic Predators have so little to work with, as well. Isolated, hated, (due to Smear Campaigns) and void of the ability to speak out, I attempt to give these victims a voice.
Disordered Personalities, in whom you are speaking, do not need an advocate. The world already loves them. These Sadistic Entities appear as the sweetest of syrups in a world of dry waffles (they become The Antidote to all misery) and they wear their masks well.
Believe me, John Gacy, Ted Bundy, Jeffrey MacDonald, Jeffrey Dahmer, Diane Downs, Deidre Hunt, James Porter, Leonarda Cianciulli, Surinder Koli, Elizabeth Bathory, Albert Fish, ETC., would not grant their supporters, nor their devotees’ innocent children immunity from their harm.
Whether seared consciences by their own choosing, the joy of living out their lives in the most primitive experience possible, or born without a choice in the matter, the recipients of their horrific abuse need a voice and recognition for the torment in which they suffer at such hands.
I appreciate your wish to advocate and argue for Abusers (although cherished and welcomed into our world with open arms already), but I choose to communicate for the broken ones who are unloved, lonely, and hopeless. It is they who lack the resources and understanding in which to aid in their cragged, long-suffering road to recovery.
Nevertheless, thank you for your feedback, Dear Narcissists’ Advocate. Though I speak out for victims, it is not my place to implement judgement upon predators.
I wrote a simple poem a few years ago that went like this:
‘My words are to help protect others; thus, my purpose is not to wave a wand of judgement against any of you;
after all, The Good Lord knows, well enough, that in a manner of speaking, upon my belly, I often slither, too.’”
Copyright ©Tamara Yancosky, Monikajeneva, BBYCGN