Frauds of Facebook

Frauds of Facebook, Narcissists

Frauds on Facebook, offering support to Narcissists’ Victims, make way for online abusive relationships with nasty masked predators, and are far more common than thought.

I found myself in one such deceptive web which included Narcissistic Administrators, and their Enablers, Flying Monkeys.

Further down- upon his permission- is a commentary I added to this post which entails the real-life experiences of a Malignant Narcissist, H.G. Tudor in his regular predatory position on social media platforms. He speaks about Facebook, in particular, which coincides with my present article. (I will save the beast until last).

*This post is not about H.G. Tudor. He is simply validating my experiences with a predatory Facebook site which in whom I express my gratitude.

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Frauds of Facebook


Ultimate betrayal comprises a vulnerable victim from a previous Narcissistic or Sociopathic relationship becoming the target and victimized all over again, from these same kind of dark personalities, but no less, on a Facebook Support Forum meant for victims of Narcissists! WTF???

Facebook Groups for Narcissist Victims can be an abuser’s paradise, even without the Piña Coladas. Dark Personalities can find valuable supply and fuel via vulnerable and traumatized victims.

From my experiences with this entire circus performance of masked deceivers, I could compose a lengthy and concise account, in book form, on the dark details that occurred in this Facebook Group administered by real predators, their tag-along minions, and clusters of shoddy reptilian bullies.

I have no intent on exposing anyone, as this is not my purpose (and frankly, I don’t wanna!). Plus, it would only give these Narcissists the attention they desire. I only wish to write for the sake of helping others to become more aware of the dangers of these frauds on Facebook sites.

Recipients of Narcissist Abuse are susceptible to predators before they have healed, and even in the early stages of recovery (while searching for answers), and beyond.

Snot-faced Predators have high-functioning scent’atizers, and can detect vulnerability from thirty-three million miles away.

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Frauds of Facebook

Idealization Phase

The Good?

A discarded Narcissist victim suffers a penetrating void from the dependency (or addiction) that a relationship with a dumb*ss Narcissist can bring about.

Such sufferers, when tempted by the delicious substance needed to fulfill this ravenous addiction, via online support groups administered by Narcissists, find much sought-after relief. It can feel amazing! Despite their callous, unfeeling nature, Narcissists know this truth.

The lure for a pre-groomed victim of Narcissistic Abuse, gifted with the opportunity of replenishing this stark emptiness, and satiating the withdrawals while separated from the Narcissist, is akin to receiving that next fix. This is the intensity of a victim’s dependence to their Abuser.

Henceforth, when a recent victim comes upon one of these pseudo online support groups, administered by Narcissists, or even Sociopaths, he/she might believe that they have met their perfect family, via the interactive administrators.

And the mock support group reiterates these feelings by idealizing the victim in the Honeymoon Phase with statements to make the newbie feel important, loved, and accepted.

Such over-the-top statements might include, “We missed your absence so much for those entire two days; in fact, one of the other (greasy) administrators was thinking about leaving the group if you hadn’t come back to rejoin us!”, or “Everyone here just loves your wonderful company, and your knowledgeable comments!” Here’s the one of many, which I was told, “We would love for you to join us, and be an administrator, too!” (oooh!)

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Frauds of Facebook

Devaluation Phase

The Bad

When the Devaluation Phase of the support group’s behavior comes riding in on its thick-snouted, grunting warthog, this is the precise time when those same vulnerabilities and voids, once tended to in such an exquisite manner, get attacked with insidious, but painful blows of damaging maltreatment.

These abusive techniques include, Triangulation, Intentional Neglect, (the Silent Treatment is a stark contrast from the previous outpouring of attention that the victim was receiving while being groomed in the beginning Love Bombing Phase), Bullying, Twisting of Words, Blaming, Shaming, “Under the Radar” Manipulation, and many other tactics seen by singular, textbook Narcissists.

In the same way as carried out by a singular Narcissist, or Sociopath, the hope of these corrupt Helping Sites is to cause attachment and addiction to their cult, then break down the target’s spirit, causing the same intensity of pain and devastation, as inflicted by the target’s former Abuser. (They can’t think of anything more original).

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Frauds of Facebook

Abuse Tactics

Instantaneous blocking (without being given a reason), and/or enduring the intimidating experience of having the other administrators gang up on the targeted person (cyber bullying), and even going as far as attempting to smear the victim’s reputation (Smear Campaign), are some many abusive tactics which might begin in the Devaluation Phase, after the initial Idealization Phase has waned, (when the target was being groomed), true to the “three-step” abuse pattern seen with a singular Narcissist:

1). Idealization Phase (Love Bombing)

2). Devaluation Phase 

3). The Discard.

There are sincere online support groups out there which offer invaluable enlightenment and insight into the confusing deceptions, and mind games, that Narcissists and Sociopaths undertake, and offering comfort, and validating fellowship with others who have also been in these types of horrific relationships.

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Frauds of Facebook

Discard Phase

The Super (Duper) Ugly

In the Discard Phase, the reptilian administrators might gang up on the targeted individual, and single this person out, causing the victim deep confusion and shame. (This brings about the common “WTF?” Phenomenon, known as Cognitive Dissonance, along with constant self-questioning and self-doubting). Thus, the member becomes ostracized from the group for the most intangible or minute reasons.

If the victim has not yet gotten hurled out of the online predatory group, he/she might perceive the group’s manipulative, immoral behavior and leave the Facebook support group on his/her own. This also works in the Narcissistic group’s favor via protecting themselves (if questioned later), by stating, “Well, ‘so, and so’ didn’t get kicked out, but left by their own choice, and was an overly emotional person to begin with.”

Emotional lability is a common trait after dealing with the horrors caused by a former Narcissist.

Executed by these online dark crusaders, baiting and provoking targets for particular reactions is in the works all along, which the perpetrators further exploit through the Narcissistic textbook technique, called: Gaslighting.

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Frauds of Facebook

Thrill of The Chase

Once “these kind” get what they want, it dampens the thrill of the chase; thus, these predators create drama so they can watch their prey scamper off, only to get hooked within the savage grip of their torturous claws, again. It is all part of their diabolical game.

The vicious entities in these predatory online groups might even boast of their careers, outside of Facebook, as Domestic Violence Advocates, Volunteers for Abuse Victims, Relationship Advisers, and many other endless helping occupations of interest. This makes their abuse that much more confusing, and disorienting, to the targeted person. (It’s sort of like a McDonald’s Happy Meal claiming to be a Vintage Cote de Boeuf… it makes one want to smack their head, silly, and give out a triple dogger “WTF???”).

The above scenario was a terrifying wake-up call, for me, into what such predatory online support groups are not only capable of carrying out upon vulnerable targets, but relish, with ruthless exhilaration and excitement, as they continue, undetected, by the majority.

*Note: The women Narcissists in this group were particularly nefarious and vile. 

Frauds of Facebook - Updated - MonikaJeneva

Frauds of Facebook

Cyber Bullies

Speaking of cyber bullies, these abusers are cowards in that they work in pairs, or alongside of other bullies, to gang-up on their target. It is rare to see a loner-bully.

And just like Narcissists, bullies might very well Gaslight, lie, (or add bits of truths to their lies in cunning word-play maneuvers), use deceptive, charismatic speech to prove to non-targets that they are innocent (despite what the victim says), wear masks (that cover up the snot running down their noses, into their eager, awaiting mouths), and even gather followers of funky-scented, Flying Monkeys.

Cyber bullies can carry out all the same dark-art techniques as Narcissists, and not just on Facebook Forums, but anywhere that one can journey to online: Poetry Groups, Hobby Forums, Pet Sites, Dating Sites, Pokemon Meets, ETC.,.

Yet, whereas Narcissists are personality disordered, this is not the case with bullies per say.. Bullies (if not Narcissistic Personality Disordered Individuals), can feel empathy, compassion, a conscience, and able to self-reflect (however, using these traits is another issue; but, the capacity to do so exists).

Bullies can change, but Narcissists, and Sociopathic people, being incapable of empathy, compassion, and void of a conscience, and/or remorse, do not change.

Narcissists and Sociopaths see no reason to change. They cannot self-reflect into their own disordered nature, which would be the core stepping-stone needed in helping these kind even consider getting treatment.

In the glazed-over eyes of a Narcissist, he/she is nothing less than a perfect “god/goddess”, well beyond any wavering conviction, or concrete evidence (there is plenty) to the contrary.

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H.G. Tudor’s Commentary

“The various FB support groups are curious places indeed. I have sat in the shadows of several observing the behaviours of those who post there in order that I might learn more about the behaviours of my kind, and that of the victims. I have the following observations:

“These groups are hunting grounds for our kind (Narcissists and Sociopaths). They are chock-full of emotional, desperate people and it is like shooting fish in a barrel.

“Indeed, your own experience, Tamara, is testimony to this.

“There are a lot of bullies in these places. Some are Narcissists, and others are “holier than thou” victims who believe if someone tries to understand the Narcissist’s perspective, then they must be a Narcissist, as well, and they jump on that person.

I find that pathetic.”

H.G. Tudor


Isaiah 41:10

Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.

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    1. Thank you, Bill.

      Yeah, this Australian guy got mad at me because he could not believe I would not allow him to bestow such an honor unto me as to be interviewed on his prized YouTube Channel. 🙄

      Narcissists cannot accept rejection. Thus, he set up a lame Smear Campaign against me on YouTube micro-mincing and twisting my words to make them fit his misinformation and lies while displaying his laptop on his video with a giant sticker claiming his status as a “Super Saviour Empath”. 😳

      At any rate, I forgive him since The Lord says to love our enemies.

      ♥️ ♥️ ♥️


  1. It’s okay Monika. Just let it go. This ‘Super Empath-Narc Files’ just wants to argue and harass you. Go No Contact and ignore this commenter. You are well past this and need prove nothing to no one. You know the facts, as does God.

    Some people will never get it, Monika. Save yourself the energy and time. Followers will always be followers no matter what proof you have because of exactly what you have said. Sociopaths followers remain loyal even while they are drowning in their devotion. It’s the nature of the beast. Enjoy your freedom from them and don’t respond to this commenter. Go no contact.

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  2. You can’t beat a Super Empath,I’ve had a borderline secondary psychopath try and destory my life but, failed. (Not upper range narcissist)
    I get my info from DR Sam Vakini, I bet Sam could bet Alan ohh I mean Hg with both hand tied behind hes

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    1. Narc Files/Super Empath,

      I saw your obnoxious Smear Campaign full of absurd remarks about me on YouTube, and I have one question. Are you just pretending to be a “moron”, or is this your natural state? (Asking for myself).

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    1. I never had a YouTube Channel. Maybe you’re thinking of Reva; she had a YouTube channel about HG Tudor. I’m not interested in going on YT. This post, here, was written a long while back. I no longer discuss him. I have moved on.

      Like I said, I think you’re looking for Reva. She had the YouTube Channel.

      Thank you

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    2. Also, this above post I wrote in 2016 and is NOT about HG. It’s about a group on Facebook. HG was simply validating my experience that I had with this particular group.

      “YAY” on getting the upper hand on a Borderline Secondary Psychopath (but not upper-range Narcissist). 🙄

      Are you like famous, or something, for this death defying feat?

      From my experience, those who go around claiming to the world that they are “Super Empaths” (or any kind of Empath for that matter), are usually Narcissists in Empaths’ clothing. But, with you it’s probably different; you probably break the mold and are a Super Duper “Mary Poppins” Empath.



  3. It is too bad that he manipulated you into taking down the information you have on him because now he will just continue to do the same thing to other unsuspecting women.


    1. It’s too bad everyone cheers me on, but won’t speak out, themselves, in order to “help other women”.

      He did not make me take them down; I chose to do so. I have closure, now, and need not waste anymore time on him.

      BTW, I know who you really are…

      Nevertheless, thank you for your kind words. ❤️


      1. There was a time I might have spoken out about the 15 years but it seems silly knowing I’m just one out of countless other women he has been intimate with, online or in-person. If the forum was right I might speak out, but it sounds like you have moved on so I will leave you alone.
        BTW, who am I? Nevermind, you do not need to answer that.
        Nothing but good times ahead! Take care.

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  4. With that said, I was his significant other for the last 15 years and I know first hand what he is capable of. He has hacked into my computer on several occasions and I still am not sure that you are not H.G posing as someone else.


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