Cognitive Dissonance In Narcissistic Abuse

Cognitive Dissonance In Narcissistic Abuse

The WTF??? Phenomena created in us, by those high on the spectrum of Narcissism, is known as Cognitive Dissonance.

Where there are Narcissists, there is Cognitive Dissonance… Big Time. It is an inevitable occurrence when entangled with these Dark Personalities.

Everything that is false, dark, confused, and WTF??? is of Narcissists. However, God’s crystal truth shines in clarity.

A visual example of Cognitive Dissonance would be like attempting to put a square photo into a round frame and having it fit. It’s like, WTF???

I suddenly feel dizzy, but in a rectangular sort of way…

If we learn anything enlightening after having been in a relationship with a Narcissist or a Sociopath, we realize just how wonderful God is for being the Unchanging, Honest, Merciful God in Whom He is in all of His entirety. He is nothing like a Narcissist!

Cognitive Dissonance In Narcissistic Abuse, BBYCGN

Cognitive Dissonance In Narcissistic Abuse

Whenever we get whammed with complete and utter confuzun, konfushion, confusion, anxiety, tangly hair, and/or panic, let us remember that in our Lord, there is no Cognitive Dissonance, only blessed surety.

(Sometimes Cognitive Dissonance makes my hair super frizzy… ugh!).

In Him is the ever present Light in which no dark thing, dwells. We can trust in our Holy Father, in Jesus’ Name, Amen!

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Cognitive Dissonance In Narcissistic Abuse, Tamara Yancosky

Cognitive Dissonance In Narcissistic Abuse

Cognitive Dissonance In Narcissistic Abuse

Cognitive Dissonance In Narcissistic Abuse

God’s Love Overcomes Cognitive Dissonance In Narcissistic Abuse, BBYCGN

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  1. Thank you for sharing, Nika, it’s good to know that whatever is happening in our lives we always have spiritual support, which the universe delivers in many different and often surprising ways that allows us to straighten the kinks of our curly hair!! Donna 🧚🏻‍♀️❤️🙏

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  2. Hahaha! Cognitive dissonance and frizzy hair… I wonder if they have created a special shampoo for that yet? LOL.

    I love this post so much and I do have a question. If a narcissist is nice to you all the time, yet they do things like ignore you and treat you like you don’t exist for no reason at all, is that a form of cognitive dissonance? Basically they are constantly sending you mixed signals? Again, I’m learning so much from your posts, Tamara. Please keep ’em coming!

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    1. Thank you, Manessah! Yes, the shampoo is called: Narc-Free with Extra No-Contact Infused Conditioners added. (LOL)

      Yes, they blow “Hot & Cold” to keep you on your toes and in a state of confusion and Cognitive Dissonance. They must ALWAYS be in control, and keeping you second-guessing everything gives them that sense of control and power.

      It’s a roller coaster ride without added seat belt protection. (Shame on them!). I’ve been there much of my life and have experienced these situations as you just explained.

      I’m always happy to help in any way I can, my friend, cuz frizzy hair is a pain in the rear-end!

      Seriously, anytime you have questions, I’m here for ya! ♥️

      Big Hugs!


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      1. LOL! Well, I may need to buy some of that shampoo, and I mean a LIFETIME supply of it.

        I think I may have befriended someone like that recently and I’ve distanced myself from them the minute it started making me feel negative feelings. I don’t do the whole “Hot & Cold” thing very well and I won’t start liking it anytime soon. Lol. Been there, done that.

        I’m so sorry you’ve been through this too, Tamara. It’s really sad when people can look at another human being and simply see a toy, something to play around with recklessly. But, I’m glad you got out of that relationship. Power to you my friend. ☺️

        Thank you so much for educating me on all of this and being so wonderful with sharing your experiences with us all. You are making a huge difference on here, T! Much love to you and big, big hugs your way! ♥️

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