The WTF??? Phenomena created in us, by those high on the spectrum of Narcissism, is known as Cognitive Dissonance.
Where there are Narcissists, there is Cognitive Dissonance… Big Time. It is an inevitable occurrence when entangled with these Dark Personalities.
Everything that is false, dark, confused, and WTF??? is of Narcissists. However, God’s crystal truth shines in clarity.
A visual example of Cognitive Dissonance would be like attempting to put a square photo into a round frame and having it fit. It’s like, WTF???
I suddenly feel dizzy, but in a rectangular sort of way…
If we learn anything enlightening after having been in a relationship with a Narcissist or a Sociopath, we realize just how wonderful God is for being the Unchanging, Honest, Merciful God in Whom He is in all of His entirety. He is nothing like a Narcissist!
Cognitive Dissonance In Narcissistic Abuse
Whenever we get whammed with complete and utter confuzun, konfushion, confusion, anxiety, tangly hair, and/or panic, let us remember that in our Lord, there is no Cognitive Dissonance, only blessed surety.
(Sometimes Cognitive Dissonance makes my hair super frizzy… ugh!).
In Him is the ever present Light in which no dark thing, dwells. We can trust in our Holy Father, in Jesus’ Name, Amen!
Tamara Yancosky Jankowska