Escaping the Narcissist
is not about making them taste
their well-deserved defeat;
our victory is for our own rewards,
which, at first, are often bittersweet.
But once recovery takes place,
and we find genuine self-love,
no longer will it matter
if the Narcissist is aware of their wrongs;
we will have found our long-awaited wings
and forever risen above!
Escaping The Narcissist
To rise above, and recover from Narcissistic Abuse, we search within ourselves to make sense of such an incomprehensible reality, and to settle the Cognitive Dissonance brought on by this unfathomable abuse.
It is within this deep soul-searching journey that we learn to better love ourselves, trust our intuition, and escape the detrimental flashbacks that ruminate in our mind’s eye.
Anyone who has endured the horrific experience of being targeted and abused by a Narcissist or Sociopath can attest to the reality that it is one of the most complicated experiences that one can suffer.
As time passes, escaping the Cognitive Dissonance is not such a far-fetched process. By accepting the abuser’s venomous nature, and becoming stronger, wiser, and more compassionate to those who have also suffered at the hands of these kind, we can also acquire great growth and help others in the healing-process.
Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the Lord.