Relationship With Narcissist Is An Illusion

Relationship With Narcissist Is An Illusion, Monikajeneva

The relationship with the Narcissist is an Illusion of exquisite fulfillment and perfect love via the Love Bombing Stage. Psychological poverty follows once the Narcissist’s inevitable Devaluation and Discard Phases march into our lives.

Upon the realization that our fairytale romance was a manipulative performance to ensnare us from the beginning, we face confusion as we attempt to align our beliefs with the truth.

These two opposing views collide with each other and result in Cognitive Dissonance – “WTF??? Phenomenon”.

Releasing our grip of this illusion and accepting the bitter reality will aid in the recovery of the unsettling “WTH??? Phenomenon”.

It is difficult, though, to let go of this storybook love breathed into us since early childhood through novels, songs, theatrical plays, movies, ETC.,.

The complete loss of this fixed dream is distressing to our once lifelong pursuit of this utopian fantasy romance.

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Now I close my eyes,
And I wonder why
I don’t despise.

Now all I can do
Is love what was once
So alive and new,

But it’s gone from your eyes.
I’d better realise.

Les yeux sans visage.
Eyes without a face.
Les yeux sans visage.
Eyes without a face.
Les yeux sans visage.
Eyes without a face.
Got no human grace
Your eyes without a face.
Such a human waste,
Your eyes without a face.

-Billy Idol, Eyes Without A Face

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6 Comments

    1. I understand. I wish you the best. You hurt me very much which is why I was so angry. But now, I feel no more anger. I wish you peace and fulfillment, forever, in your life. xxxooo You are a Rough Diamond. Good bye, until we meet in Heaven, by The Grace of our Lord, Jesus Christ.

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  1. You can think of it as losing something or you can think of it as gaining something. If the person is a narc, then you have only gained your freedom, respect, sanity, and yourself in the process. Though it does not feel that way. Its difficult to have this perspective as the narc gives you such a high like no one else, that you are left with a vacuum when they are gone. But they were actually never there to start with. It was only an illusion as you rightly say. But a powerful and all encompassing illusion at that.

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    1. Yes, Michelle, as you well know… it takes time to heal from a relationship with a Narcissist as opposed to a relationship with a Non-Narcissist. They purposely hook. They put us on a pedestal just to gain the power of pushing us off of it.

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    2. Tigerchelle,

      Perhaps it would do you well to listen to your own advice. Your public comments and private emails were really quite the opposite of each other. It was quite the display of so-called “hypocrisy”.

      And as far as judging me for having more than one account, you were chatting with me from one of your ‘alternate accounts’, while chastising me.

      All along, it was you who was the one to be avoided, and not the others. I am sorrowful for your troubles in life, as we all have them, but it is no excuse to manipulate those whom you pretend to call “friends”. Yes, you burned me, but never again.

      I forgive you, and have found great peace away from your presence.

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