Knowing The Narcissist –
TIN, The Invisible (online) “British” Narcissist, H.G. Tudor, was a bit sloppy when he first came into his online blogging career of running his “helping site”, and used his grounds as a hunting site by private emails, to vulnerable victims, freshly out of Narcissistic relationships.
There is plenty of evidence of this, as well as my own proof from his emails to me. He used the same Love Bombing, Devaluation, Discard, Hoovering, and Silent Treatment, on me, and other targets, that all Sociopathic Personalities use.
Below are two hypothetical letters, that one of his former victims wrote to me, as if it was from HG Tudor, himself, in order to provide me with some form of closure. I did the same for her.
Of course, those who rebel against this online Sociopath (scammer), are labeled as “Mid Range Narcissists”.
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MLA: “You know, if TIN (The Invisible Narcissist) were to apologize to you for how bad he hurt you, the apology you never got would go something like this:
“Tamara, I’m sorry I took advantage and crossed lines with you with my private Love Bombing. I did because I could. I’m sorry I pretended to want you, and told you that you belonged to me, and all the future-faking that came with it. In actuality, though I was purposely causing an addiction in you, for me. After I Love Bombed you in my cunningly skillful, lustful way, I could not reciprocate your feelings because I don’t know how to love and what you felt became too real for me. When that happens my defense is to play games. You have many gifted talents, especially with writing that moves people. You are a gentle, kind, soul. That is a beautiful thing. Focus on your friends and family in your life that support you. You deserve that. I’m sorry I deeply hurt you. Kind Regards, TIN” (Mark DeRainault). HG
“I just thought you should know what I think you need to hear because it won’t come from TIN, but should.”
My gratitude to MLA for writing these words that gave me validation and closure. She is the sweetest friend I could ever ask for.
In turn, I wrote MLA a Letter of Closure, from TIN (The Invisible Narcissist) hoping it would provide her with validation, as well.
“Dear ”Fireball”, I’m sorry that I took so much of your time and led you on with my Future-Faking. I chose you because of your authenticity, valuable heart, and genuine empathy. I am a manipulative man, and I know I hurt you, wasted your time, and purposely set you up for a big downfall. This is my problem, though, and is of no fault of your own. Had I been a normal person, you would have been perfect for me; but, as you know, I am built for evil. I wanted to hurt you because I am jealous of all your precious qualities that I will never have. You didn’t deserve to be hurt, by me. I’m sorry I took advantage of your kindheartedness; but that’s why I chose you. I knew, due to your sweet heart, I would be greatly fueled once I discarded you. You did not deserve it, and I am an eternally lost man who must keep busy so that I am not reminded of my own wretchedness. I could change, but here’s the thing, I don’t want to change. Even though I am sorry, if I could do it over, again, and hurt you even worse than before, I would. I hurt those who have the most to offer in regards to the fullness of their hearts. Kind Regards, TIN” (HG Tudor)
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We wrote these letters to each other because Malignant Narcissists are never at fault, in their own minds. Above, and beyond this truth, they also blame their victims/survivors for the pain that they, themselves, cause them. It is always, somehow, the victims’/survivors’ fault, one way, or another.
“Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.