Crumbs From Narcissists –
Upon sharing with him
her deep-seeded feelings
of confusion and pain,
she became the target
of the Narcissist’s hatred and ghosting,
and the object of his heartless disdain.
His love for her was merely for show,
and his “academy award-winning performance”,
upon their breakup,
she saw with distinct clarity,
that his personhood was eerily artificial.
His friends hungered for more
of his Smear Campaign in eager
and drooling suspense;
his words of “true love and devotion”
were utterly fake,
and all cleverly, masterminded nonsense.
His Flying Monkeys became his own personal
detectives, and diligently
noted her whereabouts;
in their minion fashion,
they frisked her for his approval,
and his crumbly, buttery handouts.
Strangely, others have the same account
when conveying the Narcissist’s
especially, the Gaslighting, Triangulation,
and Switch & Bait,
which all occur with astonishing frequency.
Crumbs From Narcissists
Crumbs from Narcissists will become our allotment once the Golden Phase is over. Unfortunately, we get used to these small portions, and think we deserve nothing more.
Let us learn to not settle for mere handouts of meager crumbs, while the Narcissist goes around giving everyone else rich delicacies. After all, they do call us their “soulmates”.
Small portions in normal relationships are very different from the crumbs given to us in Narcissistic relationships; in regular, healthy relationships, our partner might be giving to us all that he/she has to give, and because of the love that both parties have for each other, it is fulfilling.
However, in a relationship with a Narcissist, these kind purposely give their partners the very least amount possible, while giving out an abundance to others, in order to put on a good show; and to boot, they are wholly incapable of loving their partner, anyway, beyond a fake façade.
In a relationship with a Dark Personality, meager crumbs are all that we will ever receive once the initial Honeymoon banquet is over.