Sucking Up To Narcissist’s Ego

Sucking Up To Narcissist’s Ego

Sucking up to the Narcissist’s ego (once we realize how diabolical he/she is ), can sometimes help to keep the peace long enough until we can dodge the situation, permanently.

But, could you do this?

Sucking up Narcissists Ego

Sucking up to the Narcissist’s ego would be quickly noted by him/her as a miserable act because I don’t have a “poker face”, and even the most unaware people know when I am attempting to put on a performance. It is a rare occurrence for me to even be able to throw a surprise birthday party without it being made ridiculously clear that I am hiding something!

Besides, I have a temper that will not allow me to suck up to anyone’s ego, especially an abusive Narcissist, without finally pouring out my rage over his/her inhumanity. This stems from the abuse I endured as a child.

Sucking up Narcissists Ego

Sucking Up To Narcissist’s Ego

I cannot tolerate premeditated, purposeful harm being done to me, for very long; and when it comes to my loved ones being abused, I won’t bear it for any amount of time. I’d venture to say that I’m not in a minority group, here, with these thoughts.

Sucking up to the Narcissist’s ego, to stay a bit safer, for the amount of time it takes to pack up and leave, is easier to do, though, when one has children. We will do anything, and withstand just about anything for our children. But, if I’m on my own, then I will not likely take the abuse lying down.

Sucking up Narcissists Ego

Sucking Up To Narcissist’s Ego

Despite emotions of anger being a fuel source for Narcissists, I would instinctively have to bring my childhood trauma back to the present scene of abuse, and smash it down upon my abuser’s head.

Having patience, in the face of evil, is still something I am working on which will probably take me a lifetime to master.

Speaking of sucking up to the Narcissist’s Ego, when it comes to the Cerebral Narcissist, we would do well to also suck up to their Thesaurus.

Ha ha. Yep.

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Sucking up Narcissists Ego

Sucking up Narcissists Ego

Sucking up Narcissists Ego

Sucking up Narcissists Ego

Sucking up to Narcissist’s Ego

Sucking Up To Narcissist’s Ego

 

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