Enabling Codependency

Enabling Codependency –

It seemed natural that, due to my own battle with Codependency, I would want to help others learn how not to be Codependent. Ya!

So, in the realization that one of my friends was also Codependent, I decided to try to help her overcome her own horrific cycle of attempting to take responsibility for everyone else’s personal lives. You Go, Me!


I genuinely wanted to help her achieve a healthier way of life, which included better self-care, and having stronger boundaries!

It was really quite the struggle, but I would not give up on my friend no matter what!

Of course, then it dawned on me that, in my relentless attempt to help someone else put aside their Codependency behaviors, I was enabling my own Codependency, once again! Ohhh, crapola…

Funny how those not so little things can sneak back up on a person! Really…

Codependency, Beast of Burden


Feeding Codependency




      1. Yes, that’s true – and that’s the thing about life is meeting others with interesting points of view and experiences and learning new things about ourselves all the time – just when we thought we knew ourselves! 🧚🏻‍♀️❤️🙏

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